Life Without Regret

Most of us think of possibilities of "if we had.."

we all let ourselves get drowned in thoughts like "i shouldn't .." "I regret doing.." and list goes on and on.

we keep thinking and thinking,and hence seldom live a life we always wanted to live.We fail to notice what's going around us,start getting away from people we always loved and gradually we start living a life which is neither present nor in any way close to what wanted.

We grow a tendency of living two lives ,one which we are actually living and other which we always aspired for...of course later one in our sub-conscious mind.

We easily grow a notion that we have wasted what we had,and what we have now is no where close to sufficient to achieve what I actually need. No wonder doing this makes our present miserable. This is start of infinite loop

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We again start regretting and blame ourselves in "our future's present" of not utilizing judiciously what we had then...

Ultimately,We doubt our potential and live rest of life like a looser.....

Only antidote which can pull you out from this situation is YOU , your looking at things,and handling with situations one at a time and grabbing opportunities which are in front of you.

Past is gone and you did nothing wrong with it,Everyone takes decision as per his/her assessment of that situation and so you shouldn't blame yourself that you took wrong decision,Because you know you were right when the very situation was in front of you.